Cucun Wahyudi Widodo

By: Elly Risman (Senior Psikolog dan Konsultan, UI) Kita tidak pernah tahu, anak kita akan terlempar ke bagian bumi yang mana nanti, maka izinkanlah dia belajar menyelesaikan masalahnya sendiri . Jangan memainkan semua peran, ya jadi ibu, ya jadi koki, ya jadi tukang cuci. ya jadi ayah, ya jadi supir, ya jadi tukang ledeng, Anda bukan anggota tim SAR! Anak anda tidak dalam keadaan bahaya. Tidak ada sinyal S.O.S! Jangan selalu memaksa untuk membantu dan memperbaiki semuanya. Anak mengeluh karena mainan puzzlenya tidak bisa nyambung menjadi satu, "Sini...Ayah bantu!". Tutup botol minum sedikit susah dibuka, "Sini...Mama saja". Tali sepatu sulit diikat, "Sini...Ayah ikatkan". Kecipratan sedikit minyak "Sudah sini, Mama aja yang masak". Kapan anaknya bisa? Kalau bala bantuan muncul tanpa adanya bencana, Apa yang terjadi ketika bencana benar-benar datang? Berikan anak-anak kesempatan untuk menemukan solusi mereka sendiri. Kemamp...

I saw this image in a post a while back and it really bothered me. At the same time, it made me realize how happy I am that this leadership mentality is hopefully on its way out. Remember the movie Office Space? Remember the scene with “The Bobs” when Peter is being brutally honest with both of them? If not, you can click on this link and refresh your memory: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EoC7e-mqPCc  "That will only make someone work just hard enough not to get fired." That line stuck with me from the moment I watched the movie for the first time. It’s so true. I think we’ve all had those jobs, especially early on in our careers when we were at the bottom. Bottom of the barrel. Bottom of the totem pole. Bottom of the food chain. However you call it. We were newbies. We had to do the dirty work that nobody else wanted to do. And what was our main motivator? To get out from under the bottom of the barrel. Why did we get up and go to that crap job? Because if we didn’t, we’d ...

$100,000 a year is only $273 a day. $273 a day is only $11/hr if you have a business that is running 24 hours. If you're only working 8 hours a day...how are you suppose to make up the other 16 hours? You see...there is nothing wrong with having a job. A 9-5 pays the bills, but it's not meant to keep you forever. Save money and invest in a business. It's time to learn how to make money in your sleep, 24/7. For things to change you have to change. by: Hamel Chauhan Source: https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:6251874886755577856/